Love is not an accident, it is not something that is out of your control and not an outside force; love is a decision.
If you want to love someone then you must consciously decide that you want to love that person, and that you can and will love that person. Sustaining love is not easy…but it is possible. It requires effort. It requires you to work and try new ways of making your partner smile.
It requires you wanting to make your partner love you more and more every day and accepting the love they give you in return. At times it will be difficult, possibly near unbearable — but in the end, if you can make it work then you will be thanking your stars